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News and our views on California family law issues that are important to residents of California: divorce, child custody, child support, visitation, parental rights, property division and related income tax issues, alimony and spousal support.

Divorce – A Father’s Involvement in a Child’s Life

October 26th, 2009
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In an article by the Wall Street Journal, it was noted that “gatekeeping” or interference by the other parent, when the other parent is taking care of the children is generally not in the best interest of the children. According to the article, women and men alike can trigger gatekeeping, which can cause conflict between the parents, dissatisfaction with parenting routines, and ultimately be a disadvantage to their children.  An example is cited, wherein a mother was tempted to interfere when “her husband roughhoused with their sons, and she kept worrying he would drop them accidentally.  After a few moments she acknowledged that her husband knew what he was doing and would not let the boys get hurt.”

In the context of a divorce, “gatekeeping” by one parent can take new heights.  The policy of California is to encourage continuing and frequent contact between the children and both parents.  However, it is not uncommon for the non-custodial parent to raise allegations that the custodial parent is alienating the child against him/her (generally the father) or that the custodial parent is using the child as leverage in order to obtain more favorable property or support orders.  For example, “you are not paying me child support therefore you can’t see your son”.  Or there are other circumstances, where the non custodial parent may seek more time with their children for reasons that do not serve their best interest, e.g., want to reduce their child support.

California courts take these allegations serious and if proven may even hold the other parent in contempt of court (if the custodial parent is violating existing visitation orders) punishable by a monetary fine or jail time, and in the worst of cases a complete change in child custody and award the non-custodial parent full custody of the child.

Divorce is a difficult time for everyone, however if parents communicate with each other, encourage visitation, and try to keep their children’s interest above their own, divorce may be a transitory and fleeting period for everybody.

By: Patricia Rayos, Pasadena Family Law Attorney

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Divorce: Automatic Restraining Orders (ATROS)

October 21st, 2009
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It’s been all over the news and the tabloid media, Jon from “Jon and Kate + 8″ the popular and now infamous TLC show, was ordered by a Pennsylvania Court to return $180,000 he removed from a joint bank account with his wife Kate.  Kate had made the morning show roundup to denounce Jon and accuse of him of leaving her without funds to pay household bills and support their 8 children.

If Jon and Kate’s divorce case was being heard in California the outcome would be the same.  Once someone is served with the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage and the Summons from their spouse, automatic temporary restraining orders (ATROSs) go in effect.  There are 4 restrictions that if violated can result in criminal charges:

Per Family Code Section 2040:

1.    Neither party can remove children from the marriage out of the state of California.  In some cases out of the county where the children reside.  For example, you want to go visit your parents in another state.  You cannot unilaterally take your children with you, unless you obtain written consent from the other parent.  This might seem overly burdensome to you, but one policy behind this restriction is the prevention of “kidnappings” from one parent.  Once the child is removed from the state of California it may be extremely challenging for a parent to get the child returned back.

2.    A restriction on transferring assets and canceling or changing the beneficiaries of any insurance coverage.  What this means is that even that if you really want to because your spouse is horrible to you…you cannot remove him/her from your health or car insurance coverage if you are the one that was providing it at the time commencement of the divorce.

3.    Now the one that would apply to a Jon and Kate situation.  You are restricted from cashing, borrowing, transferring or concealing any property, this includes separate property as well, e.g., your inheritance or funds you acquired before or after marriage.  So forget the idea of removing funds from the joint account and transferring them to your cousin in New Jersey.  You are also restricted from obtaining any loans if you are going to use community or separate property as collateral.

4.    Changes in non probate transfers are forbidden.  What this means is things like creating trusts, POD (payable on death arrangements at the bank, Totten trusts,etc.

At this point you might be thinking to yourself how am I going to survive if I cannot get funds from my accounts and other assets.  Well, there are exceptions to these ATROS:

a.    Necessities of life.
b.    Payment of attorney fees.

Obviously paying your mortgage and groceries constitute necessities of life.  However case law is conflicting as to what really constitutes necessities of life given the facts of a case.   Now if you buy a corvette that might not be considered a necessity of life (I think a corvette would be nice).  Courts’ also want you to have legal representation so that you have someone that can defend your rights.  Thus you can use community and separate funds to pay your attorney.  This information may be too much to digest, so if you want to read more on what happened to Jon Gosselin, please do.

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Families looking for family law representation and related financial understanding in a supportive environment would be wise to engage an experienced family law attorney and CPA.  John H. Spurgeon is a practicing California family law attorney and CPA. He is a member of the Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association. For more information, please call John at 626-440-9518 for a complimentary initial consultation.

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Family Law: From Litigation to Mediation and Now Collaborative Law

October 14th, 2009

California family lawLitigation is based upon a rights model. That is; what are the rights of the individual litigant as defined by the law. Mediation and particularly collaborative law are based upon the intent of the parties. Collaborative family law allows the parties to tailor their case to their individual needs, sometimes going outside of the boundaries of the California Code.

The benefits of collaborative law are objective as well as subjective. Intent or interest based negotiations allow the parties to construct the outcome of their case and how they want it to look in the end. Children see their parents modeling cooperation in deciding the family’s future even though the parents are not living together. Attorneys for both parties are charged with cooperating and finding a solution. The whole family picture is on the table including future opportunities. Optimized tax planning comes into the mix for future transactions.

Effective January 1, 2007, California Family Code Section 2013, became part of the California Collaborative Family Law Act. Code section 2013 allows the parties to use a collaborative process to resolve any matter governed by the California Family Code and defines a process in which the parties and their consultants use their best efforts and good faith to resolve disputes without resorting to conflict within the judicial system.

John H. Spurgeon is a practicing California family law attorney and CPA. He is a member of the Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association.

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Visitation and Custody

September 21st, 2009

JSFL- Blog 3The California judges have a substantial say in the matter of visitation and custody. A noncustodial parent has a right to visit his or her child according to the best interests of the child. Secondarily, the Courts want continuing and frequent contact between the parents and child.

The general rule is that a parent not granted custody of a child is entitled to visit with the child unless the court finds after a hearing that visitation would be detrimental to the child’s physical, mental, or emotional health.

For visitation to be detrimental, some type of compelling reason, based on circumstance, must be shown. Factors which show parental unfitness include child abuse, neglect, or severe mental illness. If the parent has failed to establish a relationship with the child, the court may limit visitation.

The noncustodial parent must be given notice of the hearing to deny visitation and an opportunity to be heard. The custodial parent must show that visitation will seriously endanger the child’s welfare. If a custodial parent makes false allegations, the non custodial parent may gain custody with the accompanying child support. Where circumstances fall short of grounds for denying visitation, a court may consider supervised or restricted visitation. When there is reason to fear for the child’s safety, the court may require a third person to be present or to have visitation take place in a public place. This is very rare, however, be careful of committing any kind of domestic violence, including threatening outbursts of verbal abuse. The courts have wide discretion to determine what is abuse, so watch it. Better to walk away from a potentially explosive event and seek court intervention.

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Family Law- Divorce Advice

September 16th, 2009

Divorce Divorce can be overwhelming. You’ll be put in unfamiliar situations and everyone with an opinion will offer advice. It’s an emotional rollercoaster and keeping your emotions under control will be difficult. Take up a regular exercise program to keep yourself healthy and to relieve the stress. If you can afford it hire an exercise trainer to keep yourself in focus.

After finally making the decision to get divorced, it’s natural to think, “I just want to get this over with.” But making rushed decisions can come back to haunt you. Talk to a family law attorney and an accountant who is familiar with California Community property laws before you make any commitments. Seek the attorney that will negotiate with the other side rather than starting with litigation. Litigation is expensive and should only be used as a last resort.

Family or friends have too strong an influence over you. Seek out the friend for comfort, but remember that each divorce is different. There are too many variables and no two divorces are the same.

Start your own discovery process now. Discovery is a stage in a lawsuit where lawyers for each party request that the other side turn over documents and information that will help prove each party’s case. In a divorce, discovery can include everything from tax returns and financial statements to interviews conducted under oath by the opposing lawyer. Find the documents which you think important now before starting the divorce process.

Don’t divide your assets without first creating an inventory. It’s important to know what you have before you can divide it. Your inventory should include everything from real estate, retirement accounts, life insurance whether community (obtained during marriage) or separate (property generally acquired before marriage or from gift or inheritance). Get a handle on your debts including tax liabilities.

Don’t cave into your spouse’s requests and demands in an effort to heal your marriage. Even if you know that divorce is the right decision for you, you are bound to have moments of doubt and regret. It is perfectly acceptable to discuss reconciliation, but don’t attempt to win your spouse back by agreeing to unjust demands. You are entitled to live a happy life without fear of future repercussions from your spouse.

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California Law of Paternity

September 8th, 2009

JSFL- Blog 1When one is not married to the mother of one’s child, paternity may be an issue down the line for those fathers. A father may not be presumed to be the father under California law even though he may be the biological father. Also, obtaining child custody and visitation orders when paternity has not been established may be challenging.

The following are few steps that can help an unwed father avoid problems with establishing paternity:

1) The biological father should sign the Voluntary Declaration of Paternity (VDP), which are generally executed at the hospital where the child is born. This trumps the need for a Judgment of Paternity- the declaration serves a Judgment for Paternity if executed after 1996. A VDP may be rescinded or set aside by either parent within 60 days by filing rescission form.

2)Register your name and information on the child’s birth certificate which is additional evidence regarding a parent’s identity and connection towards their child.

3)Receive the child into your home and openly hold him/her as your natural child. If the child does not live with you, visit him/her frequently and provide the requisite maintenance and support.

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Family Law Matters Involve A Lot Of Stress

September 2nd, 2009

JSFL- Blog 4It has been our experience that parties to a divorce or other family law issue experience a great deal of stress. Here are some suggestions to deal with that:

There are many causes for stress in our daily lives. Work, school, and our own personal lives are some causing factors to increased levels of stress on the human body. This increase in stress causes mental as well as physical negative effects on the body. When the body is exposed to high levels of stress, it responds by releasing hormones that are detrimental to the body’s mental and physical health. One of the most major hormones released by an increase in stress is cortisol. This is a stress hormone that promotes negative physical changes. These changes include, an increase in body fat, specifically, in areas such as the midsection, hips and thighs and an increase in aging. Cortisol also increases the workload on the heart; this increased load may lead to heart attacks and other heart problems.

The most useful solution to reducing high levels of stress is implementing regular physical exercise at least four times a week to our everyday lives. Exercising is a way to release hormones that work to oppose the effects of cortisol, the hormone released by stress. After exercise, high amounts of serotonin are released and circulate in the blood stream. Serotonin is also known as the “feel good” hormone. This hormone not only reverses the physical effects of cortisol, which the decrease in body fat, but it mentally makes us feel happy. Exercising not only will make you look and feel good, but it can save your life from this silent killer.

If not taken care of immediately, stress will silently kill us without us being aware of it. I highly encourage everyone with stress in their life to implement exercising on a regular basis. Performing 20 to 30 minutes of intense exercise allows stress to subside; moreover, it will silence this silent killer in the long run. Don’t let overwhelming and discouraging situations destroy your life.

Mutaz Ahmad, Physical Trainer
King’s Fitness
917 E. Route 66
Glendora, ca

Mutaz_ahmads@hotmail.com

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Family Law Attorney Advice for Registered Domestic Partnerships

August 20th, 2009

JSFL- Blog 3The legal recognition of same-sex relationships has been a topic of fervent discussion across the nation, especially in California in recent years. The California Supreme Court’s decision in In Re Marriage Cases (2008) 43 Cal. 4th 757 (effectively legalizing same-sex marriage), the approval by California voters of Proposition 8 (effectively overturning Marriage Cases), and the high court’s subsequent upholding of Proposition 8 as constitutional in Straus v. Horton (2009) 46 Cal. 4th 364 has intensified the debate. Under current law, California does not recognize same-sex marriages, regardless of where performed, except for the approximately 18,000 such marriages performed between the ruling in Marriage Cases and the passage of Proposition 8. Regardless of how the courts, voters, or legislature respond to the ongoing same-sex marriage debate, a registered “domestic partnership” remains an option for nonmarital cohabitants, many of them same-sex couples.

The Domestic Partner Rights and Responsibilities Act of 2003 (“DPA”) took effect on January 1, 2005 and retroactively applies to domestic partnerships entered into prior to that date. The DPA grants registered domestic partners most of the same rights, protections, benefits, obligations and responsibilities as spouses under California law. This includes community property rights (such as the joint-title presumption, rights of reimbursement, etc.), joint and several liability for debts, right to seek financial support following dissolution, and other rights and duties as between partners concerning ownership of property. The DPA also explicitly states that former “domestic partners” have the same rights as former “spouses”, and surviving “domestic partners” have the same rights as widows or widowers. Furthermore, the rights and obligations with respect to a child of either domestic partner shall be the same as those of spouses under the Family Code. This means custody, visitation, and child support obligations of a non-biological parent who is/was in a registered domestic partnership with the biological parent of a minor child will turn on whether they are a “parent” under the Uniform Parentage Act. However, it is important to note that some superior courts in California have been reluctant to give domestic partners certain Family Code rights not expressly conferred by the Family Code (exp. the putative spouse doctrine, or application of Family Code section 4337). Furthermore, since the federal government does not recognize same-sex unions in any form, a multitude of rights do not attach to registered domestic partnerships.

By way of example of some of the above principles, say a same-sex couple (A and B) entered into a domestic partnership in California in 2002. “A” earns $60,000 per year, and “B” earns $20,000 per year at their respective jobs. That same year, after the date of registration, they purchase a house and “A” uses $25,000 of funds he earned prior to the date of registration as a down payment on the house. “A” and “B” initially take title to the house as joint tenants. In 2009, “A” files for dissolution of the domestic partnership. Under the DPA, and thus the community property laws here in California, “A” is likely entitled to reimbursement of his $25,000 down payment on the house, the house is likely community property because of the joint-title presumption, and “B” may be able to receive partner support from “A” considering the apparent income disparity. Thus, under California law, dissolution of a registered domestic partnership may be similar to dissolution of a marriage.

While the debate regarding same-sex unions will undoubtedly rage on, registered domestic partnerships and the DPA remain intact here in California. For further information regarding rights and obligations of, entering into or dissolving a registered domestic partnership, please contact our office for a consultation.

John Spurgeon – Family law attorney

626 440 9518

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Family Law: Alternative Venues to Resolve a Divorce

August 19th, 2009

JSFL- Blog 2The following are alternate venues to resolve your divorce:

1) mediation

2) private judge

3) collaborative law

4) litigation

In a fledging economy what are the options available for those who want to end their marriages?

  • Mediation:

If you and your spouse are amicable, can discuss issues without heated arguments, and are willing to compromise and settle, then Mediation can be very helpful and cost effective. Mediation is generally less expensive and takes less time as you are not subject to the court’s calendar. If you and your spouse reach an agreement you can submit it to the Court for filing without ever having to step inside a court room.

However, if you and your spouse cannot communicate with each other, because of domestic violence or drug and/or alcohol abuse, or simply because one side refuses to mediate then don’t waste your money. Furthermore, if you are the victim of domestic violence you should seek immediate court’s relief in protecting yourself and any children

  • Private Judge:

If you have the funds to retain a private judge to resolve issues in your divorce then the services of a private judge can speed up your divorce. Using a private judge has both the benefits of litigation and mediation. Just as in litigation, a private judge will hear you case and issue orders that are binding and that the other party must abide to, however, unlike litigation your case be heard sooner and you will have possibly the exclusive focus of a family law judicial officer. Private Judges like attorneys charge by the hour, so if you lack funds or do not want to incur the cost of a judge and an attorney, a private judge may not be a viable option for you.

  • Collaborative Law:

Some attorneys practice what is called collaborative law. Both parties retain a separate attorney, and in turn these attorneys attempt to settle disputed issues without going to Court. If the parties do not settle, the collaborative law process terminates and both attorneys are disqualified from any further involvement in the case. Generally these attorneys are part of a team of professionals that can assist in the settlement process, such as financial experts and mental health professionals.

As in mediation, if the couple does not reach an Agreement, then they will have to go alternate ways such as litigation which is costly on top of the funds already spend on the collaborative attorneys.

  • Litigation:

Almost everybody is a familiar with litigation. American television and movies love depicting the court room scene were a Perry Mason kind of lawyer finds out the truth after a thorough examination of the witness or when Jack Nicholson screams at Tom Cruise, “you can’t handle the truth”. Unfortunately, due to the nature of a divorce, litigation is sometimes the only option. A couple has their day in Court so to speak. Litigation is very useful when you need to obtain a restraining order against a perpetrator of domestic violence or when the other party is acting in bad faith towards you and hiding assets or income.

However, by using the litigation route you are subject to the court’s calendar, meaning you may have to wait months to be heard in a court of law and if you have an attorney you will probably incur significant attorney fees for having him or her litigate your case.

John Spurgeon – Family law attorney in Pasadena

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Family Law: Help with Divorce if You’re Faced with Contempt Charges

August 3rd, 2009

Family law - Contempt chargesThe following are three helpful hints if you are faced with contempt charges during divorce proceedings in California:

First of all what are contempt proceedings? Well, when a party to a divorce does not comply with a court order or is in violation of that order he or she can be held in contempt of court and an aggrieved party may bring contempt charges against that party. Orders that are subject to contempt charges include but are not limited to, child support, spousal support, and child custody and visitation.

1. You need to be personally served with the contempt charges. If you are served via mail or through your attorney (with few exceptions) the contempt charge is already deficient and you can request the Court to dismiss the contempt charges.

2. Determine if the contempt is criminal or civil in nature. Generally, the paperwork that you were served with will indicate whether it’s criminal or civil. Also the relief requested may give you a clue as to the nature. If you are being asked to do what you were previously ordered to do or to pay a fine for failing to do so, then it’s a civil contempt. If the relief request is you be punished for violating a court order than it’s probably criminal in nature. It matters what type of contempt you are facing because it affects the burden of proof and the procedural requirements attached to your proceeding, for example whether you are entitled to a jury of your peers and possibly an attorney.

3. You are entitled to present your defenses. In terms of child custody and visitation contempt’s’, if your child is over a certain age, you will generally not be held in contempt of court, if it was your child who refused to exercise the visitation with the other parent and you can prove that was the case either by testimony or other evidence. In regards to support contempt charges, an affirmative defense may be that you could not financially afford to pay the support and thus violated a court order. However, please note that unemployment is a very weak defense, if you have the ability to earn that amount.

Patricia Rayos is a family law associate attorney with John H. Spurgeon and Associates, Inc. She lives in the San Gabriel Valley with her family. John H. Spurgeon is a firm of family law attorneys and Certified Public Accountants.

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